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Cokes and Pizza and Mascara and High-Fives

Tricia Lott Williford July 20, 2024 No Comments

“Write about a time when you got exactly what you wanted.” Coke cans in the fridge and pizza boxes on…

Winning and Losing and Driving Away

Tricia Lott Williford May 29, 2024 No Comments

When you go enter a car dealership, you have to know you’re going to be on the losing end of…

I Want To Show This To You.

Tricia Lott Williford May 7, 2024 1 Comment

There are things in my life that are too beautiful for words, so sacred, so layered that I can’t really…

Elf On The Shelf: I Did Not See That Coming

Tricia Lott Williford December 7, 2023 No Comments

Do a quick Pinterest search for the Elf on the Shelf, and you’ll find headlines like these: 75 easy ideas…

Slaps.

Tricia Lott Williford December 7, 2022 No Comments

Our family schedule now allows for exactly two dinners together each week. Two nights a week, I pull out all…

Baby Ben, a Digital Robot, & My First Go at Grandparenting

Tricia Lott Williford November 18, 2022 No Comments

My memory-keeper apps brought up this story from a year ago, when we got to know Baby Ben the digital…

Too Soon for Neuter Jokes, Mom.

Tricia Lott Williford November 9, 2022 1 Comment

The puppies were spayed and neutered yesterday. Molly’s was laparoscopic, two small incisions, so she seems to be doing well.…

Dynamic Duos and “The Guy with the Hoe”

Tricia Lott Williford October 31, 2022 3 Comments

Today makes seventeen halloweens. And I have very little to do with any of it. I’m now the comfy lady…

Brick Wall

Tricia Lott Williford January 28, 2022 4 Comments

We are at the life stage where the boys come home late at night after a shift at work or…

Baby Ben, a Digital Robot, & My First Go at Grandparenting

Tricia Lott Williford November 18, 2021 4 Comments

I don’t know if I’ve mentioned this recently, but Tuck is in tenth grade. He has far surpassed my height,…

Halloweens Past: I’m the Cozy Sweatered Lady Now

Tricia Lott Williford October 31, 2021 1 Comment

I’m feeling the wonder of autumn tonight. (It’s probably because peeling apples makes me feel like a domestic goddess. I…

Gentlemen’s Academy

Tricia Lott Williford September 19, 2021 8 Comments

Somehow, I have become the mom sitting by the mirrors outside the men’s dressing room, while the sons try on…

School is In Session

Tricia Lott Williford February 9, 2021 4 Comments

I took my children to school today. It felt gloriously normal, like muscles that have ached to be stretched. It’s…

On Dating the Daughters

Tricia Lott Williford September 29, 2020 6 Comments

“Mom, I asked her to be my girlfriend. But don’t worry – I talked to her dad already.” “You asked…

We Are Trying to Be Civilized.

Tricia Lott Williford June 24, 2020 5 Comments

Maybe you’ve seen this story that’s circulating on social media: “Years ago, anthropologist Margaret Mead was asked by a student…

Ranch Dressing and Orgasms

Tricia Lott Williford April 23, 2020 8 Comments

“Mom, did you know they make ranch dressing seasoning?” one son says. “I feel like she bought that already,” says…

The Very Definition

Tricia Lott Williford March 30, 2020 1 Comment

Looking through some old journals tonight, I found this dialogue from four-year-old Tucker: “Mommy, let’s make a train. Tyler…

Sparkly, Shiny Promises

Tricia Lott Williford March 24, 2020 5 Comments

A few years ago, I kept things lively with a special treat for the boys each day of spring break.…

“Don’t Use Her Name.”

Tricia Lott Williford February 20, 2020 7 Comments

My son witnessed an assault against a young woman in his P.E. Class. A situation of a young man wielding…

Balls, Strikes, and Courage

Tricia Lott Williford September 19, 2019 5 Comments

Just when I thought I knew my role as Baseball Mom, my boys changed their position on the field. They’re…

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